Crushing on this one girl....

[ichance DF Member Posts:16 Threads:1 Reputation 0]

Here is a little bit of backstory. When I was a freshman in highschool, I met this girl, Sam. We didn't really talk until my algebra teacher moved my seat to her, and I am sooo glad she did. I started talking to her non-stop during the school year, this is when I started catching feelings for her. Around may is when she started dating this guy, Jonathan. They are still dating till this day, but things are a little bit shaky between them. Fast-Forward to the summer, I went to a new school to pursue Software engineering and Graphic design. This is when we kinda fell off. Then in october-novemberish, is when we started to talk again. I realized my feelings never really dissipated for her. When we started to talk again, it was like the best feeling in the world. It's just something about her, I just fucking love about her. I like her so much that I don't even have sexual feelings towards her (if that makes any sense?). But, recently, she has been going through a lot with her family, school and other things and she tells me she wants to end her life. My heart SANK when she said this. I told her that I will always be here for her nomatter the scenario. She told me, she will try not to, but in the end she is the one being hurt, and that is so fucking true. I just don't even know what to do at this point.

Thanks for listening 

[Electronic DF Member Posts:288 Threads:22 Reputation 12]

Keeping it real, depression is no joke.
Being there and telling her you're going to be there for her are two polar opposites, it's like... A distant relative saying they love you. It's their job to say it but they don't actually prove it except when sending you shitty coupons and 5$ gift cards to Tim Hortons (Thanks Paul) .

If you feel the way you do and you know she's contemplating this. Go with her and try and help her to get counciling. Inform her of the options she has. Last but not least, inform her everyone now adays suffers from depression. She's not the only one.

Good luck.

[deckmeeker DF Member Posts:72 Threads:4 Reputation 0]

legit bro good luk

[iDaFox DF Member Posts:14 Threads:0 Reputation 0]

Here is a little bit of backstory. When I was a freshman in highschool, I met this girl, Sam. We didn't really talk until my algebra teacher moved my seat to her, and I am sooo glad she did. I started talking to her non-stop during the school year, this is when I started catching feelings for her. Around may is when she started dating this guy, Jonathan. They are still dating till this day, but things are a little bit shaky between them. Fast-Forward to the summer, I went to a new school to pursue Software engineering and Graphic design. This is when we kinda fell off. Then in october-novemberish, is when we started to talk again. I realized my feelings never really dissipated for her. When we started to talk again, it was like the best feeling in the world. It's just something about her, I just fucking love about her. I like her so much that I don't even have sexual feelings towards her (if that makes any sense?). But, recently, she has been going through a lot with her family, school and other things and she tells me she wants to end her life. My heart SANK when she said this. I told her that I will always be here for her nomatter the scenario. She told me, she will try not to, but in the end she is the one being hurt, and that is so fucking true. I just don't even know what to do at this point.

Thanks for listening 

I HATE FUCKING LIFE SO FUCK LIFE

[sogini12 DF Member Posts:17 Threads:2 Reputation 0]

tbh i hate my life and when i feel down i just think to myself where will i go when i die and everytime i think that i want to drown myself in my paddling pool in my shed (no joke) i then stop and buy myself a cigarette or a nice can of vanilla coke and resume my day, and thats what you should do, just take her out for something nice to eat or do and make her life as positive as possible cos it is negativity that kills :)

[CryptoWare DF Member Posts:14 Threads:0 Reputation 0]

wow good speech hope man all you can do is hope

[sdgfsg DF Member Posts:8 Threads:0 Reputation 0]

Im going to talk to super cute girl in a few next days. I hope she will like me

[Rick Wubba lubba dub-dub! Posts:990 Threads:105 Reputation 30]

be straight up with her the sooner the better. tell her how you really feel. (btw I completely understand the having such great feelings for someone you aren't even thinking sexual feelings towards them) but tell her that ever since you met her your life has been better and when you get to see/speak with her your day brightens and tell her you hate what she is going through and it hurts you to see her that way. make sure she knows you are there with her. depression always helps to know someone cares about you and that people that love you would not be the same if something terrible where to happen. it's best to be honest and make sure she knows you are standing with her and and if she did something to hurt herself you would hurt too. people with depression often want to hurt or kill themselves but are less likely to do so knowing it will hurt others (physically or mentally)

[frosterino DF Member Posts:14 Threads:0 Reputation 0]

girls and love is a dangerous game, i hope you'll be fine though bro

[kaasis DF Member Posts:21 Threads:1 Reputation 0]

Girl with name Sam? First time hearing someone has that name while being woman. :D